I don’t judge anyone for two main reasons, Because I have too many faults of my own & because I don’t know the battles others are fighting.
When I was younger, I wanted to change the world but as I grew older & wiser, I felt it was better & easier to change myself. I always remember a small parable whenever I feel hurt & think of changing the ways of the world or someone’s attitude or behavior.
Once a King fell ill and the doctor advised him that he should only see a Green color in case he wants to recover. Being a King he ordered that let everything in his kingdom be painted green & lo & behold his loyal courtiers started following the order.
A wise Minister came to know of the same & went to meet the king & advised him, ” Won’t it be easier if you wore Green Coloured lenses” The king immediately realised his folly & followed the Minister’s advise & rewarded him handsomely for his guidance.
If you have a problem with your feet, it is better to wear a pair of slippers than to try & carpet the whole earth.
So, don’t judge others, don’t find fault in others behavior but look at ways to improve yourself